Practicing Active Listening
Passive listening is hearing,
Active listening is understanding
Active Listeners:
- Listen more than talk
- Don’t answer questions with another question
- Don’t finish the sentences of others
- Are aware of their own biases and control them
- Plan responses after the speaker is finished, NOT while he or she is still speaking
- Pay attention
- Never dominate the conversation
- Provide good feedback
- Interpret by considering all relevant information
- Ask open-ended questions
- Summarize the speaker’s message
- Keep on the topic of the conversation
- Take short notes
And always remember, in the words of Dale Carnegie, “A talk is a voyage with a purpose, and it must be charted. The man who starts out going nowhere, generally gets there.”